Assisted Living vs. Home Care: Which is Right for Your Family?
What You Get:
- Private apartment + 3 meals
- Social activities & housekeeping
- Emergency call systems
What You Don't:
- 1-on-1 continuous care
- Medical procedures (wound care, injections)
Critical Insight:
Assisted living isn't licensed for dementia care in 22 states—many require separate "memory care" units.
Families often confuse 'assistance with bathing' in brochures with actual dementia support
Hidden Realities:
- Minimum hour requirements (4-hour shifts, even if you need just 1)
- Caregiver turnover averages 60% annually
- No overnight coverage unless paid extra ($250–$400/night)
Cost Comparison:
Service | Assisted Living | Home Care (44 hrs/week) |
|---|---|---|
Monthly Cost1 | $4,500 | $5,200 |
Meals Included? | Yes | No |
Side-by-Side Comparison Chart
Factor | Assisted Living | Home Care |
|---|---|---|
Socialization | Built-in community | Isolated |
Safety | 24/7 staff onsite | Depends on caregiver |
Flexibility | Fixed schedules | Custom hours |
Best For | Seniors who thrive socially | Those wanting to age in place |
- Social isolation is a concern
- Multiple daily needs (meals, meds, activities)
- Safety risks at home (falls, wandering)
Case Example:
- After her husband died, 82-year-old Martha grew depressed alone at home. Assisted living's social calendar "gave her a reason to get dressed again."
- Early-stage dementia (familiar surroundings help)
- Strong family support nearby
- Pets can't relocate
Pro Tip
Use home care for transition periods (e.g., post-hospital recovery before returning to AL).
Hybrid Options:
- Respite Stays
- Try assisted living for 1–2 weeks ($1,200–$2,500)
- Adult Day Care + Home Care
- Socialization by day, home at night
Yes, but plan ahead—waitlists average 3–6 months in popular areas.
Only long-term care insurance covers both. Medicare pays for neither.
Compare, assess, and consult experts.
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Take Our Quiz: "Which Care Type Fits Your Situation?"
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Consult a Geriatric Care Manager ($150–$300 for unbiased advice)
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We wasted $8,000 on home care before realizing assisted living was safer for Dad's dementia.
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